I love how you assume it's him who is terrible. I'm sure you're just one hell of a catch yourself. And hey, even if you're not, at least you're a loving, tollerant wife, who doesn't judge her husband based on a brief experience... oh wait

To everyone saying OPs husband should watch some porno to learn how to have sex, I think that's a terrible idea. No woman wants to have sex with her legs pinned behind her ears and her husband straddling her backwards, one leg up, one leg down, or doing some of the crazy crap you see on those things. OP, sometimes if you try woman on top, it will make him last longer. Just don't bend him in half. Also OP, if you want something done right.... Do it your self. Or you could talk to your husband about what works and what doesn't. And as someone else suggested, multiple tries will work things out.

Actually, waiting until marriage for sex has very little to do with morality. The idea is that you are exposing yourself completely to another person, in every way. And ideally, that type of exposure and openign up should only happen with someone who has committed themself to you so completel

so completely that they will love you and be with you no matter what (even if you are supposedly "terrible"). With premarrital sex, you get the physical pleasure, but you don't get the emotional / psychological side of it, which is the feeling of complete acceptance and uninhibitedness. And as someone who has had premarrital sex, I can say that this view is true, and I wish I had waited.

And im just sure your a regular jenna jameson right? Either your a ***** and have far too many guys to compare him too, or you are quick to judge your soulmate after their first try at what is the most vunerable thing two people can experience. What a horrible wife! im glad he sucks.

Cut him some slack. You just need practice. Lots and lots of practice.

that's the reason you don't wait to marage to have sex if lots if ppl where bad thier first time

Hopefully it will get better. Generally everyone's first time isn't the greatest ever anyway since they haven't yet really figured out what they're doing...Especially if both people involved are virgins.

How do you know he was bad,what did you have to compare it to? Looks like somebody didn't wait!

practice makes perfect so keep doing it