Promise

By thiswouldhappen. - 17/03/2009 02:19 - United States

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Today, my dad gave me a promise ring on my one-year anniversary with my boyfriend and made me swear I would wait until marriage. Four hours later, he walked in on us having sex in my bedroom. FML
I agree, your life sucks 54 677
You deserved it 265 819

Same thing different taste

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why do parents think a ring will convince their dear daughter to keep her leg closed? it never works.

And that is why you don't do it in your parents' house.

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Screw abstinence, its overrated and stupid. Go ahead and **** whoever you want, well done!

endurancefan212 21

What the hell. I'm committed to abstinence and it's not underrated and stupid. Also, I've never had a boyfriend, makes my life a hell of a lot less complicated!

it's not something your dad should force on you, it's a choice you make on your own. clearly, it's not a choice you wanted to make.

Shit happens in the heat of the moment. Good for you. Your boyfriend would've been posting a FML on this site if you said "no" to him while showing him the purity ring.

cupcake2 0

ok wtf is with all the people about not understanding being a teenager we all have been and i still am yet i am waiting to be married its not bad and she shouldnt have done that is it really so hard to just say ill try or something along those lines when not accepting? screw the people who support her accepting the ring then turning around and having sex

That sucks, you're dad shouldn't be making you promise that in the first place. For one thing a promise someone forces you to make isn't a real promise, and if someone does choose to wait untill marriage it should be a promise to themselves, not their parents.

I'm late on this one but I don't really care. I feel like ranting. I find it funny how many people misinterpreted the Jonas Brothers South Park episode. They were not condemning purity rings, they were condemning Disney for using them as a money making scheme. They never once said that the meaning behind them was wrong. I think people are getting out of it what they want to see, not what's truly there. I think purity rings are great, but I don't think that a parent should force it on their kid. It's a personal, private decision that you would have made yourself if that was your intention. So I'm with you there. But taking the ring, knowing you're not going to stick with what it stands for is really pathetic. Having sex later that day in your father's house while he was home isn't something that I can agree with you on, either. That was pure stupidity.

MixedNuts 0

U R A TERRIBLE PERSON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lolatflyingducks 0

#135 is right. You shouldn't have made a promise you couldn't keep. It's better your Father know the truth than find you in action.

urgh i hate that! and thoses purity parties where they make their 11-12-13 year old daughters make toasts about staying virgins, to everyone! thats terrible! like they can predict the futur! things, time and ideas change , dont try and guilt ur kids into doing what u want