Sometimes people do cheat but feel nothing and it brings them closer because they thought they were missing something only to find out that they werent.... But either way that is some FAIL logic. If I cheated on my bf, and I didn't get wet, I sure as hell wouldn't use that as my leverage to explain how it was okay for me to do so. It's like "Well honey, I wasn't faithful and you'll probably never trust me again... BUT I TOTALLY DIDN'T ENJOY IT" Then, arm raised cause he was going to beat me, he lowers his arm and softly whispers "Well that makes it okay." Or, you know, not. Idk, women like that make me almost ashamed to be one. Almost.

Kill her. I mean, dump her (body).

5 years and that's the excuse she gives you? How can people be that insensitive? -_- Anyway, the only real definition of cheating is this one: "Doing something that you know will hurt your partner" (and telling him or her about it before or after doesn't make it better). It doesn't matter if it is sexual intercourse, "just" oral sex, kissing, touching, stripping, or wearing a skirt. No matter how stupid it may seem for your partner to be upset about things you do, if you do something that hurts him it's cheating. For example, I know some guys aren't happy if their girlfriend wears a skirt, and many people say those guys are idiots. But if it hurts your boyfriend so much, don't wear a skirt. And if you really can't do this for him, break up (or try to help him be comfortable about you wearing skirts. Excessive jealousy is often caused by the fear of losing your boyfriend/girlfriend, so this problem can be solved). But in any case, don't do something that hurts your partner just because you think you have the right to do it. And though my example is about girls not cheating on their boyfriend, guys should not do something that hurts their girlfriend, even if their girlfriend is excessively jealous. I don't like talking about my own life too much, but at one point in time it hurt me if my girlfriend would wear clothes that would show even a bit of cleavage. Yes, I was jealous to the point that this made me sad and hurt me. I explained to her that this was probably unconsciously due to the fact that I could not see her very often, which made me worry I would lose her. Well, instead of telling me "you're an idiot, I'll wear whatever I want" she was comprehensive and started wearing longer clothes. Guess what? I got better, I even felt I could trust her more, and now I don't mind if she wears something that shows her cleavage. But if she hadn't been so understanding, we probably wouldn't be together anymore. In the end it all comes down to how much you love and care about your partner, how serious your relationship seems to you, and how much you want your relationship to work.

To sum up what is being said in huge blocks of text WHAT A HOEBAG

Five years? That's a long time. I say, don't dump her. Just screw her best friend then call it even.

#116... you're a hypersensitive p*ssy.... but you're right about your definition of cheating though

#116 wow ur kinda right. and wow to the poster u need to dump ur gf.

#116 you a ****** pussy. Cut that bitches head off.

What a bitchhh,

Oh well. Now would be the perfect time to listen to 'a bitch iz a bitch' by NWA