time to show her otherwise and show her that she can have "the whole package".

no offense but maybe she just didn't like you and used it as an excuse? I've never heard of a girl who doesn't like fit guys.

Fyl for having a crush on someone who thinks stereotypes are always real. Ydi for being shallow enough to depend solely on your looks to get a date with her.

Nah, just gross.

It sucks that you did it just for her, but there's another girl out there who loves fit guys and will have fun playing with your big muscles. Another good thing, you're really healthy now and that's a major turn on for a lot of girls. Cheer up!

You being upset about her buying into stereotypes while creating a stereotype of yourself doesn't make sense. Try just being yourself and finding girls who like you for being you. Getting in shape is something that should be done for the sole purpose of making yourself feel better and to give you confidence. Girls like guys who aren't trying to be something other than themselves.

Maybe you should have actually spoken to her instead of just trying to impress her physically. You do sound like a jerk.

I like how everyone is saying she's shallow because she only cares about his looks, when he supposedly spent a whole year body building because he assumed she would only care about his looks. Kinda sounds like he deserves it to me.

Dude... never change yourself just to get someone to like you. Not worth it at all and they'll soon find out that's not who you are.

YDI. Making assumptions about what she likes and being put-out that you're wrong kind of does make you a jerk. Besides, even if she did like fit guys, it wouldn't necessarily mean she'd be into you. Putting all that work into impressing her just makes you seem creepily desperate.