thats not the kind of thing u send via text because u never no who could hav ur phone....also it was a shocker for him and he was just double checking if it was u and if it was u wat state if mind u were in lol....dont take it offensively though

Advice for the future? That kind of talk is a major relationship discussion, best brought up when you and your boyfriend are alone and have time to talk it out. Not appropriate material for a text. That's like dropping a commitment bomb on someone with no means for them to adequately express how they feel about what you said. But then, you probably knew that when you sent it. Don't be so passive-aggressive.

Texting mushy/serious feelings is just plain retarded. I swear, people are going to forget how to interact face to face eventually. Or CALL, THE PHONE IS ALREADY IN YOUR HAND. YDI.

I'd say YDI for saying those things with a TEXT MESSAGE. God, how impersonal can you get? Instead of just calling him to tell him how you feel you would rather just write it? I find texting wrong for this very reason. If you have something important to say, like professing your love, say it in person.

Definitely too random of you to say out of the blue. I could understand if it was an anniversary, or his birthday, or if he did something really sweet and meaningful. I probably would have responded with "are you drunk?" as well.

texting can't really convey the sincerity of feelings like that, remember the "YOUR NUTS" story???? ydi, ding bat.

What is with people sending this kind of crap in text messages? YDI for sure! The mother of his children? Grow up! I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I would NEVER write something like that in a text message... Wow!

If my girlfriend is reading this: I love you and I want to have lots of babies with you! I found that this is the most personal way for me to tell you about my feelings! Also, bring more rum.

Agreed with #23. If you love him to the ends of the earth and want to have his babies etc, then have this talk in person. This isn't middleschool where you hover over the "send" button to tell a crush you like him. After three and a half years, you should be able to sit down and talk to him about where your future is going. On the off chance you did talk about it and this was your delayed reaction to the conversation (happens to everyone) then still, shouldn't have been through a text. On the bright side, hey, you got your feelings out in words! Yay! ...Still, YDI

that's just a lot for a guy to take all at once hun, especially in a text. of course he is going to try and defend himself. don't take it personally, and don't do it again.