Wow. Two people have sex because they BOTH want to. Why would she get married to you if she dislikes ******* you? This isn't potty training, this is SEX. You really need to talk to her about this. She is being very unreasonable. Sex isn't something you earn, unless you're trying to earn money to get a prostitute. But she's your wife. You shouldn't have to earn sex from her. You have sex with her if you want to and she wants to. You do NOT have to lower yourself to a little child. If she wont have an ADULT discussion with you about this, then maybe you should try marriage counseling.

Um, right, because that's fair. I don't blame you if you left her. A rewards system? How old does she think you are? 10? This seems like a lost cause and she's a bitch.

I saw a stupid picture of this on facebook a few months ago...the greater the chore, the greater the sexual reward the husband got. Which is demeaning to everyone involved. Rip it off the wall and help out without prompting once in a while instead. You lazed around enough for her to feel this was necessary (unless she is a completely unreasonable bitch) so YDI.

Are you really that lazy around the house that she needs to do that, just to get help from you? That is truly sad.

You got a good wife, OP

what happens when you go over 50?

How childish. Or desperate, maybe OP is a lazy ass bitch

Dude, just pick up a rag and get to work. If she went through the trouble of making a chart and points system, you've been lazy too long. Sweep, dust, mop, put in a load of laundry, something! And contrary to popular belief, women don't like holding out on intimacy anymore than men.

Wow. You're quite the lazy ass if she was pushed to this. Either pull your weight or get a job that pays well enough to hire a maid.

That's really messed up. I would never do that to my husband. Maybe you should sit down and talk to her? I see that as unfair no matter what he does or doesn't do. He isn't a baby. And she isn't treating him like a husband..