Op, my fiancé randomly wakes up and says mean things. He never remembers it, but he's always rude and snippy. I've gotten that response before. He might not even remember having turned you down. Just talk about it later together. ^_^

You must really "suck" at it :)

I've never known a guy who would turn down a spontaneous ********. I would do it for my last man up to four times a day when I got to see him in between work and college. I was more than happy to oblige but by the end of it he was spent. Then I'd give him a full body massage and let him take a nap.

Maybe you suck at sucking?

Many factors can play into his turning it down, as do when women turn down sex or intimate activities i.e. early morning, really exhausted, already asleep, or might be feeling sick... etc. All of which, plus many more, are valid for anyone.

youre only 19 according to the age you selected on your profile. wait until youve graduated high school. guys sex drives are more satisfied, particularly if they are in committed, satisfying relationships.

Clearly you're not good at it.

I think you both should see other men

You aren't supposed to ask. Just do it!

There is never a good excuse for saying no to a ********...