you ice cold

Because it seems when a girl is sexual harassing a guy no one gives a shit, but the other way around everyone loses their shit

There are actually comments saying that and many saying run the large difference I see here is in the other it already HAPPENED. Both of them need to break up with their partners Id they don't understand consent, no matter what if you partner says no and you continue to do it;not getting into bdsm they have safe words), if you don't stop or listen I would definitely consider it tape or sexual assault.

Because people don't see it as rape when it's done to a guy. A few of us have called it rape. Most fools are just making jokes.

How about the jokes in FMLs where a girl has done something objectionable during sex saying the guy should stick it up her butt? You can take people to task for not taking rape seriously without comparing it to the other gender, then it's about those who really need your help -actual victims.

Exactly what I was thinking! If this was a woman saying she was worried her boyfriend was going to do something sexual to her while she was sleeping, there would be an uproar. This isn't funny, it's rape culture.

Go look at the FML from a few days ago about the guy "accidentally" shoving it into the girl's butt. Look at how many jokes there are versus the people just pointing out that it's rape. Notice how about half of them are "Oh don't take it so hard OP, it's just Anal" and "That sounds like a shitty situation" type comments? Now the next time you want to say something like "If this was a woman saying she was worried her boyfriend was going to do something sexual to her while she was sleeping, there would be an uproar. " don't, because it's completely false, utter bullshit. The uproar is the same either way it just depends on your feelings on the subject as to whether you notice the jokes or the supportive comments more.

I think most have made jokes but added that in reality this a seriously appalling situation if it isn't something normally joked about.

I really want to know if you would say that if it was her posting this?

yes I would. lol. 1 good turn deserves another. And hunny it's a joke not a dick don't take it so hard. :)

....except it is literally a (rubber) dick in this case. And where are you getting the part where he did something wrong from?

never said he did anything wrong. I asked if he had perhaps done something of that sort or maybe he kept bugging her to do anal. Notice the question mark? That means I was asking.